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Degenerative Intellectual & Developmental Disabilities

Are Virtual Relationships Real?

Eleanor Avinor*

Academic Director of Keg Cards International, Israel

*Corresponding author: Eleanor Avinor, Psychotherapist, Private mental health care and in hospital, Head of Department Academic Director of Keg Cards International, Academic CEO at KEG International, Israel

Submission: 26 April, 2017; Published: May 10, 2018

Volume1 Issue3
May 2018

Abstract

The working of social and economic institutions, inequality is also a product of the way political institutions work. Government has known to serve the interest of economics elites and this most often works to the detriment of common people. This refers to the article ‘’Two trajectories’’ A Promise of reform and Ashaaram Pattern, what others do. A molar leadership deficit, our political leaders choose not to speak on certain issues. But they are forgetting that they have a molar responsibility towards domestic violence testing among divorced women begins privately manage pharmaceutical intuition associated to slums occupied area in Pune University, India. The horrific incidence in kathua and unnao has shown us the ugliest side of the country’s politician. The right procedure is not followed for the enquiry of the domestic violence and his contention by government police. The term intimate partner violence is often used synonymously with domestic abuse or domestic violence, but it specifically refers to violence occurring within a couple relationships (i.e., marriage, non-cohabitating intimate partners). To these, the World Health Organization (WHO) adds controlling behaviours as a form of abuse. Intimate partner violence has been observed in opposite and same-sex relationships, and in the former instance by both men against women and women against men.

The high risk of experiencing domestic violence among divorced women in pharmacy institution in India who associated in slum occupied underscores the need for effective, instructional-based and standard behaviour culturally primary prevention. To inform such domestic violence primary prevention strategies for this population, author herein aimed to identify correlates of domestic violence testing in divorce women. Utilizing a crosssectional design, potential correlates of domestic violence experience were explored among a geographically-clustered random sample of speak up few known women recently-divorce women residing in private pharmacy institution in slums in Pune, India. In domestic violence testing was associated with less educational attainment by the participant’s, less satisfaction of the job with the respect they earn, if not given’’ at the time of college hours, poorer living of life style, unhealthy food and conflict skills, and greater acknowledgement of domestic violence occurrence in college and friends. These connection suggest strategies that could be incorporated into future domestic violence early prevention interventions for this vulnerable population (i.e. promoting completion of formal education of men alongside women, migration causes of institution harassment, abuse language, more personal, skills, and challenging norms surrounding domestic violence add or before inspect the pharmacy institution.

Opinion

In order to answer this question we have to think about what we mean when we say “relationship”?

Are we thinking about an emotional bond, a cognitive bond or a practical “doing” bond?

Does it include “exchange” and “participation” from both sides or if there are more than two participants, from all participants?

Virtual Relationships in our Global Village have interested me for several years ever since my first client with print-outs of a virtual love affair showed up in my office requesting my help in sorting out the real and authentic from the imagination, aspirations and desires. When it is a virtual business relationship or professional bond such as those created and developed in linkedin it is very easy, clean and clear. Both sides present their letters of introduction, their videos on you tube, Ted talks, articles that have been published, advertisements on Google and their wishes for co-operation and exposure. It is sort of like a friendly chess game or an invitation to a party, an attempt to get to know each other. You have to be careful about money exchanges and contracts, but usually the relationships are quite honest without hidden agendas and are really satisfactory for both sides. These relationships are win-win for both participants and are based mostly on cognition and cognitive elements.

The problems arise when at least one side makes it a personal relationship. Then a person, man or woman, has to be careful and recognize the red alarm signals, such as asking for money, needing money for a lawyer, asking for a loan, asking for a bank number, a credit card number just this once, or need of money for insurance or a doctor or a plane trip to meet you. Your virtual friend or lover must have your home address, identity number, or perhaps demonstrates abnormal behavior like falling deeply in love after five emails, wanting to meet physically in real life before a common ground of familiarity or friendship has been built, or love-sick phone conversations. One must always be aware of the dangers and keep boundaries. You do not really know who is out there. He/she could be at one extreme violent, a terrorist, a kidnapper or simply a con woman or con man out to get your money. If the correspondence included talks of an inheritance, big money to come in, an oil mogul father, then beware. Another possibility is that your virtual friend or lover is a psychopath, needs a psychiatrist or psychologist and not a friend or lover. Things to be aware of include: discrepancies in information and in language use; maybe the emails are written by two people or partially copied. When your virtual friend refuses to be seen on Skype or on what’s App video and is only willing to communicate via email or speaking on what’s App, this is suspicious and provides food for thought. When the first email includes “I hate lies and deceits,” beware!

Be wary of someone who is too “something”: too beautiful, too handsome, too rich, too successful, too young. Most of us are rather mediocre. If you cannot see the other side while communicating, you might be in for a big surprise as was a client of mine, a man 65 years old who was in a virtual relationship with a beautiful young woman who sent him her picture (who knows where the picture came from), a picture of a Canadian passport (who knows if it was forged or stolen), a story that she is an heiress and will be rich one day, and a picture from a magazine showing her as a model. When he asked me if it all is authentic, I answered that I do not have a clue. The only thing I know is that we have to work on his need of this fairy tale and virtual love affair. After several months of love letters and hot virtual sex, she asked him to send her money for a plane ticket to visit him as she was temporarily estranged from her rich father. He was almost ready to send her the money. Imagine that. We had a lot to work on regarding his need for fantasies.

But in spite of all these warnings, sometimes there is a normal lonely soul out there in the virtual world who is looking for somebody just like you. Life is full of surprises and sometimes there are gold nuggets just waiting to be found. Go for it, but carefully!

© 2018 Eleanor Avinor. This is an open access article distributed under the terms of the Creative Commons Attribution License , which permits unrestricted use, distribution, and build upon your work non-commercially.



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